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Get a Handle on Emotional Eating

The Secret Sabotage of Your Program


4/26/2017 8:53:07 PM

I had a breakthrough just a couple of weeks ago. i talked to myself in order to calm down. I never ever used that technique before. To say the least, I'm shocked how calm i felt just by doing that. No emotional eating at all. Practice makes perfect though :D
3/25/2017 12:26:53 PM

I have been watching "My 600-lb Life" and going through all the series believe it or not. And although I need to lose about 50 pounds, most of these people are either near 600 pounds or over.

I guess my point is, that with most of the people that are this heavy, and from what the program shows, these men and women do emotional eating.

Most of the women, and some of the men have been sexually abused and that is what triggered their emotional eating; it made them feel "safe and made them feel good" and it was because they felt they had no where else to go or no one else to talk to about their sexual and ongoing sexual abuse. This was very sad but what an eye opener!

And for the ones that were not sexually abused but were still emotional eaters, because they too had other problems with all sorts of relationship issues within their family or significant other.

For most all of these people, their emotional eating habits were established when they were young children; for others, maybe later on in life, whatever the reason.

Dr. Now, and the bariatric doctor on the show who treats these people in Houston, Texas, basically will see these people, take note of their answer when he asks what causes them to over eat. Then he gives them a basic diet of 1,200 calories a day with no snacking, and to eat more protein and to cut the carbs, basically the sugar stuff and processed stuff. Then he has them come back in for a weight check and to see how they are doing. He knows that if they cannot do the diet, then they will have issues later on after surgery in keeping the weight off because they will end up gaining the weight back.

He tells them not to drink soda of any kind after surgery because it will stretch the stomach. And that's not good. He tells the ones that have lymphedema to stick with the diet so that their body can heal.

And there were some that absolutely thought they could cheat and lie to Dr. Now and many of them do; but the fact is the scale does not lie and Dr. Now cuts to the chase and tells them so.

It's sad that people have to submit to weight loss surgery but it is a lifetime commitment once it is done because the sugar will absolutely kill you.

It's not the fat that makes you fat, it's the sugar and the refined carbs because fat doesn't not trigger insulin which is a fat storing hormone, it is the sugar and the refined carbs that will do it to you.

And so for many of these people, Dr. Now will send them to a therapist to talk with them and see why it is that they cannot stick with the diet he gives them. And for many of them, it is emotional eating. And so the therapist helps them see things in a different light and will also recommend journaling as a way to deal with their emotions. A lot of them are successful.

I am thankful for Dr. Now because without him, these people have less than a 5% of surviving at their present weight. The weight loss surgery gives them a second chance at life but it all depends on whether or not they can live with such a diet for the rest of their lives.

I have a friend on face book who lost over 100 pounds and then some, but it took her several years of absolutely clean eating and she looks wonderful! I am so proud of her. It can be done but you have to want it more than anything else and do it.
8/2/2016 8:52:39 PM

I agree with some of the ideas here. But also agree with one member who said about Binge eating. my daughter deals with that and it is hard. In order to beat it you have to come face to face with your problems and what is bothering you. Some of us deal with issues from out past and others have troubles now. In my case I have both past and present issues. I try to forget my problems by eating or losing myself in a book. Reading is better but still does not solve the problems.
2/29/2016 2:26:04 PM

Emotional eater yes I can get in that trap but I keep cold purified water next too me and splurge on it instead of foods
1/8/2016 9:12:49 AM

PUPPYBUG's SparkPage
Ugh, every time I would get upset I would either binge or become anorexic again. It was always one extreme or the other. I didn't get the emotional eating under control until I got my depression/anxiety and suicidal ideas under control. The first part of the solution is to figure out WHAT you're feeling and then WHY you're feeling the way you're feeling. I hated myself for so long and used food to punish myself in one way or another. I didn't like this article - it's far too simple an approach to such a complex problem most of us have struggled with for years.
9/15/2014 10:41:16 PM

Everyone eats emotionally from time to time, but often people may think they are emotional eaters when they may actually have Binge Eating Disorder (BED) which is a serious eating disorder which should be diagnosed and treated with the help of a mental health professional. I am a little worried that someone may read this article and recognize parts of themselves but not understand that they may have a serious eating disorder. If you have overwhelming compulsions to eat and eat uncontrollably on a regular basis, followed by feelings of self-loathing, disgust and shame afterwards, you may have BED. BED is more common than Bulimia and Anorexia combined and can have serious consequences if left untreated.
6/7/2014 2:50:38 PM

I am so an emotional eater. I have been treated horribly most of my life and I always found solace in food. It was something "I controlled" (hah, how stupid that sounds to me now, more like I was digging my own grave). Talking to my Mom and her problems with emotional eating, it is no wonder I have such a problem with it. It is hard to overcome!

Even though I thought I was finally getting a handle on it, earlier I was upset and found myself munching on a bag of chips hubby hid away and I found. I was feeling unloved, fat and unappreciated plus the stress of things in life. The food didn't make me feel better, it was just a momentary distraction. After I ate a handful, I asked myself what I was doing, put the bag away and immediately tracked what I ate. I didn't let myself feel bad about it, I acknowledged it and moved on. The food doesn't make the problems go away, just creates new ones. I could have allowed it to become a full out binge, I would have gained weight, I would hate myself, find excuses not to exercise and eat everything not nailed down and it could have become a huge thing that would spiral into me gaining back some, if not all, of the 74lbs I have lost. I don't want that to happen after all my hard work!!
5/29/2014 3:55:32 AM

The article says: "75% of overeating is caused by emotions" - no, the overeating is caused by GIVING IN to the urge to overeat that seems to be triggered by emotions. That would be a more accurate way to see it. If we didn't give in, we would not overeat. The book Brain over Binge gives insights into this.

I too object to the use of the 'tantalizing pics'.

I do not agree with the suggestion to have 'healthy foods' instead of junk food when there's an urge to overeat. This only reinforces the underlying problem with 'emotional overeating': that having food somehow helps with strong emotions and has the capacity to soothe them. As I see it this is one of the main roots of the problem with 'emotional eating'.
1/19/2014 4:06:42 PM

TOPFORM1's SparkPage
Is it me or does every article on binge eating lead with a tantalizing photo of junk food or some sugary dessert? What is it, a test?
8/16/2012 1:31:55 PM

I was an emotional eater for much of my adult life. I tried every diet you could name. Weight Watchers, Lindora, South Beach, Atkins, HCG. And guess what? I lost weight every time. Usually between 30 and 50 lbs. But then I stopped dieting, and gained it ALL back. It was very frustrating! When I wasn't dieting I was constantly craving pasta, cheese, or anything crunchy. I wasn't so much a sweets gal. But I would come home at night after work and make several helpings of spaghetti or fettuccine alfredo and plop down in front of the TV. I finally figured out that I was eating to reduce some kind of subconscious tension, anxiety and a general unhappiness with my life. Then I decided to take a look at my life in great detail, and use emotional freedom techniques to rid myself of my emotional eating. I methodically examined all my memories from childhood to present and released any negative emotions I was harboring. The end result is I'm emotionally free for the first time in my life, and I'm very happy. I've lost 30 lbs and am still losing. I no longer crave high carb foods and look forward to eating salads and fresh fruits and veggies for my meals. I would encourage anyone struggling with emotional eating or food addiction to investigate EFT. I've also shared my journey, as well as all the exact techniques and exercises I used to get over my emotional eating in my book, ThinStead. If my story resonates with you, and you want to get over your emotional eating too, ThinStead is available on Amazon. If you can beat your emotional eating, you won't have to diet anymore, because you'll automatically be making healthier food choices every day. Doing the emotional work seriously gave me back my life. I feel freer and happier now than I ever have. It's been such a miracle in my life that I wanted to share my story with the world. God bless you in your journey to health and fitness!
7/19/2012 12:16:50 PM

I read that emotional eating was caused by a serotonin deficiency and then coincidentally (or maybe not) I came across a product made in England (innoveat). I suffer from this particularly during my cycle and I think this is the main cause of my gaining weight in the past three years. Since using innoveat I feel much happier, healthier and do not eat to make myself feel better as was frequently the case before. I have now lost ten pounds.
5/26/2012 3:21:38 PM

I KNOW I'm an emotional eater. But I've become much better about stopping and asking myself, "What do you REALLY want right now?" It's rarely food. Usually it's a hug, or for someone to tell me he loves me, or for someone to appreciate what I do, or a hot bath, or a good book. I'm lucky in that I can ask my husband for a hug or whatever any time, which helps a lot. Being an "empty nester," though, I find that a lot of what I really want has to do with my grown kids, who have moved away. :-( It also helps to baby my pets when I'm feeling down.
5/15/2012 1:54:16 PM

LADYROSE's SparkPage
Well, you got the fact right that stress triggers insulin release which triggers sugar cravings.

Thing is, controlling it isn't a matter of will power, it's a matter of gaining control over stress levels which affect cortisol levels which affect a whole slew of other systems which keep us stressed, exhausted, and prone to pack on weight.

Problem is, the 'fix it advice' seems to be: Eat less, exercise more, and if it doesn't work, it's your fault because you didn't try hard enough.

Never mind that exercising more (ie cardio) and eating less exacerbate the problem, which causes people to 'stress eat'.... because, oh yeah, they're stressed.

The best fix: stop exercising like a madman/woman, eat better, and sleep more until you've healed the system. Then start addressing the underlying emotional issues that remain.
1/10/2012 6:18:50 AM

My problem with this is my husband copes the same way. So we tend to enable each other. Course we also use food as an excuse to celebrate ALL acheivments which just occured to me as I'm typing this.
12/31/2011 9:18:27 PM

Jopolwarth, I can relate to having to stuff my anger. I'm slowly getting past it, and one of the ways I'm doing it is to admit to myself that I'm angry, and to go back to the first time I felt that anger, which is usually something from a long time ago. Then I (mentally) allow myself to yell at the original person and let them know just what they've done to me. I think what is important to me as well is to FEEL that original pain. I don't necessarily feel better immediately, but sometimes I'm surprised at the insights I have to my own life, the behaviors I've adopted as a result of the past, and how I can make better choices now. I find that, even though I thought I was good and angry at the present situation, I actually never let myself get really angry at the original hurt, and the present is just a replay that I can handle as an adult. I'm finding the need to emotionally eat to be less and less.

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